In all love stories the theme is love and tragedy, so by writing these types of stories, I have to include tragedy.
What`s the challenge in writing a novel that few people will read? I`m more than happy writing what I do and have no plans to change that.
I have certain moral parameters that I do not cross in writing; I don`t write about adultery or kids having premarital sex.
Writing the last page of the first draft is the most enjoyable moment in writing. It`s one of the most enjoyable moments in life, period.
I do not use profanity in my novels. My characters all go to church.
By reading a lot of novels in a variety of genres, and asking questions, it`s possible to learn how things are done - the mechanics of writing, so to speak - and which genres and authors excel in various areas.
Loving once and only once is possible - anything is possible.
To be quite honest, I`ve been very blessed when I`ve worked with Hollywood. The studios that have purchased my work to be adapted to film have really liked the work and wanted to stay as close as they could to what the book was.
I`ll admit that it`s not easy to get an agent, but becoming successful in anything requires perseverance.
I write 2,000 words a day when I write. It sometimes takes three hours, it sometimes takes five hours.
None of my characters are rich or famous, and the situations they find themselves in could happen to anyone.
Over time, quality work will lead to an audience for your work.
Spreading the news is your duty as a Christian, and there are many ways to do this.
Romance is thinking about your significant other, when you are supposed to be thinking about something else.
I think that men know how to romance a woman and most do it well, at least for a time, otherwise women wouldn`t marry them. The problem is that most of them begin to rest on their laurels.
My wife, my family, my friends - they`ve all taught me things about love and what that emotion really means. In a nutshell, loving someone is about giving, not receiving.
Because publishing is becoming more business-oriented each day with more examination of the bottom line, it`s harder to break out than ever.
There`s always pressure, a great deal of pressure, when writing, since my first books were so successful.
Rekindled love is generally short-term.
I don`t know that love changes. People change. Circumstances change.
I`m writing a new love story, set in eastern North Carolina. Surprise, surprise, huh?
I suppose I`m most influenced by any good, commercial writer. I learn from everyone.
Above all, a query letter is a sales pitch and it is the single most important page an unpublished writer will ever write. It`s the first impression and will either open the door or close it. It`s that important, so don`t mess it up. Mine took 17 drafts and two weeks to write.
Publishing is a business. Writing may be art, but publishing, when all is said and done, comes down to dollars.
All characters come from people I know, but after the initial inspiration, I tend to modify the characters so they fit with the story.
The first thing I did when I sold my book was buy a new wedding ring for my wife and asked her to marry me all over again.
I suppose more than anything, it`s the way of life in this part of the country that influences my writing. In Eastern North Carolina, with the exception of Wilmington, most people live in small towns.
I read over a hundred books a year and have done so since I was fifteen years old, and every book I`ve read has taught me something.
Focus in on the genre you want to write, and read books in that genre. A LOT of books by a variety of authors. And read with questions in your mind.
A typical agent in New York gets 400 query letters a month. Of those, they might ask to read 3-4 manuscripts, and of those, they might ask to represent 1.
I think that enduring, committed love between a married couple, along with raising children, is the most noble act anyone can aspire to. It is not written about very much.
I am nothing special, of this I am sure. I am a common man with common thoughts and I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but I've loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me, this has always been enough..(The Notebook)
I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours.. (The Notebook)
Change not only was inevitable, but usually brought its own rewards....
(The Last Song)